Do you believe that you are the creator of your reality, but sometimes you find yourself blaming instead of acknowledging your own creations when they turn out to be not so pleasing?
The other day, I was doing exactly that. I observed something I am clear I don’t want to continue seeing in my life and then, instead of doing what I preach and distracting myself from the moment of contrast, I spanned off into blaming my ‘reality’. Clearly, in that moment, I forgot that I am the one who invited it all. By default, but still, it was my own creation.
The truth is that blame does feel better at first, and sometimes I’ll let and watch my self went if the momentum is too strong. But, I’ve come to know that when I blame, I also give my power away. It doesn’t improve my or anyone else’s life.
So why was I experiencing something unpleasant if I believe in the Law of Attraction and call myself masterful deliberate creator? Why on earth would I create something I don’t want?
When you don’t pay attention to subtleties of your thoughts and forget to guide them deliberately, we can also say, when you get distracted from your desires, you slide back into repeating instead of creating reality. This is because you are a habitual being- we all are. Your subconscious mind will continue in the direction that it’s used to, unless you reprogram and guide it until you change the default.
Here’s what’s good about living what you don’t want… You become more clear about the reality you do want. The clearer you’re about what you do want, the more committed you’ll be to create it.
You may be thinking, yeah, so now what?
Well, now because my desire is so clear and because it doesn’t feel good when I look at the opposite (no matter how ‘real’ that may seem); I am fired up to focus and tune into my desires better, to envision that which I want more. Now I don’t blame, but appreciate the gift of clarity I received from living the unwanted. I’m back to the feelings of exhilaration that comes from knowing that I’m always at choice no matter the circumstances. I’m now willing more than ever to do whatever is necessary to connect with my desires and raise my frequency even higher.
If you aren’t in tune with your emotions and not clear on what you want, things have to exaggerate a little before you can consciously note and acknowledge that you want different results. That’s what happened to me, or better said, the reality I created. The true is that things don’t have to get dramatic. It’s about balancing your own energy.
The way to get ahead and control your creation is to stop blaming and pay attention to how you feel, then course-correct accordingly.