You know when you’re almost sure that you’re on the right path to getting something you’ve been wanting and t h e n… nothing happens. You’re back to square one. Good. Here’s why you should celebrate it… From the Law of Attraction perspective, when you don’t get what you want, it means you aren’t ready for it.
Let’s say you would like to create more money, yet having thoughts running rampant (usually subconscious) that rich people are greedy, selfish, inconsiderate etc. This is the exact why you cannot allow more money into your life. You clutter your desire with envy, lack, hatred, etc.
You have to get yourself vibrationally ready and feeling purely good about what you want before you can manifest it.
If you have a desire for something, but have conflicting beliefs about it, you’ll sabotage yourself from drawing it into your life on a an energetic and subconscious level.
The good news is that your beliefs are totally workable! I love finding a limiting belief and making it my bitch, then watching my outer reality shifting as a result.
It doesn’t take too much time to re frame your current beliefs, if you have a desire to do so.
Another reason you should celebrate not getting what you want is that sometimes we think we want something and later discover it wouldn’t have been for our highest good if we had manifested it.
In the example above, manifesting more money may have distracted you from working out your family affairs first. You may have blown it as fast as it came. Perhaps, you need more clarity and vision for the money you want so it has a purpose when it comes. What your life would look like if you had large amounts of money? Can you picture it and still feel good about it?
Celebrate your journey as each step along helps you clarify and focus your desires and work with your beliefs to feel good about what you want, so you can get it. Also, start looking for and emphasizing the good everywhere you go and write about it in your journal.
No matter what’s your life situation now, you can always dig up the stuff to feel good about by doing so your focus will shift, and we know that what you focus on expands.
Ask yourself, What do I desire? And keep envisioning yourself having what you want.
Write the belief you would like to have about having this thing and practice it deliberately. Take a few minutes to breathe and bask in the new energy you’ve just created.
Give this new belief your undivided attention and read it to yourself in the morning and before drifting off to sleep.
Now, I can’t wait to hear your thoughts/experiences on the topic in the comments below…