Have you come to know yet that there’s a gift in every “unwanted” circumstance you experience? Even though, we usually don’t see while it’s happening (and that’s why we call it unwanted), energetically, we define more clearly what we do want.
The reason why so many people are stuck in the unwanted circumstances is that they stay focused there. They think about, talk about, and even daydream about what’s not working.
We know now that what we focus on expands. That’s the Law of Attraction simplified.
So, how do you shift and transform the unwanted into wanted circumstances?
Let me share a personal experience…
Two weeks ago, my daughter came back from school feeling sad and upset that she wasn’t going to be with the teacher she really liked and knew would teach grade 4 in September. I knew that, if could shift her perspective and get her feeling good about her desire, she would’ve transformed the circumstance into exactly what she wanted.
So, I started coaching her to withdraw her attention from what was happening currently and talk about what she wanted and why.
With kids, it is so easy! She reveled in her imagination and finding the reasons, she wanted this woman to be her teacher. I simply guided and held the space for her. She did such a wonderful job prepaving the energy for what she wanted and then went about having fun and enjoying life.
She felt good, and I felt good about her feeling good. Then the inspiration to take action came.
I write a note to her teacher asking about the possibilities for switching Viktoria’s class next year. She wrote back that the only option at this point was for me to call the principal and give her a good reason for the switch.
So I did call the school. I wasn’t worrying about what could go wrong or thinking, “what if it doesn’t turn out good”. I knew that, since both my daughter’s and my own energy was in alignment with what we wanted, things would work out accordingly.
The principal explained to me that they process this very carefully, considering many factors such as students’ preferences, peers, etc. I gave her my reasons for the call and said that just because she wants this very much is the reason enough, I explained. She said that she would put down a request but was worried that it might not turn the way we want it. I thought, “Yes it will, you just don’t know that yet.”
I thanked her for the effort and felt like truly appreciating her.
A couple days later, we find out that the school approved our request. Viktoria and I were jumping up and down from happiness. The most thrilling thing to me is that I know we did it deliberately. Together, we transformed unwanted into wanted circumstances.
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